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Column: Manila is Eager to be Loved

If you’ve been following me on my social media channels like Instagram, you prolly already know that I started a column with The Manila BulletinIt’s one of the major broadsheets in the country and I’m so happy to have space in their Lifestyle Section every Saturday. So if I haven’t been writing here much, you know where to find me. 😉 Here’s an excerpt from one of my columns – some things that I have been learning to love (again) in and about Manila.

Manila is eager to be loved

How the return to Manila from seven years of living in Kuala Lumpur and Berlin is teaching this diplomat’s wife how to find happiness wherever she finds herself

Toward the end of our time abroad for my husband’s diplomatic posting, I was often asked how I felt about going home. Whenever I said I looked forward to it, it was always met with disbelief. Surely, I must be joking. Did I not enjoy my time abroad?

I often assure people that I’ve savored every moment I get to spend in each city we move to, getting to play local for a few years. First, it was Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia, then Berlin in Germany. It’s an immersion like no other but the life we chose is that of an adventure of packing and moving every few years. I guess knowing that your time in a place is limited makes you immerse yourself deeper into a place in a shorter span of time. You learn how to appreciate and live in every moment. This, so that when it’s time to leave, you don’t feel too bad or have too many regrets.

Live in the present and compare less 

“You’re always where you’re meant to be. You’re always in the best possible place,” a senior diplomatic official once told me. It’s the best way to teach someone to be truly happy wherever they are in the world. One’s happiness does rely heavily on disposition and attitude toward life. You can be in Paris, living in a fancy apartment yet still be the most miserable person if you’re someone who feels like you should be in New York instead.

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Samba: A taste of Peru at the Shangri-la The Fort (Manila)

It’s been a while since I raved about a restaurant and it’s never too late to get back on that horse. Last Friday wasn’t my first time at the Shangri-la in BGC nor was it my first time in its Peruvian restaurant Samba. However, it was still every bit as wonderful as the first time I went. And that’s something about a restaurant that gets people to keep coming back – consistency.

It was October 1st and Samba was reopening after a bit of rest during the latest restrictions. Finally, we can dine in restaurants again. I sat with my friend Debbie at the al fresco section, a few feet away from the hotels (gorgeous) pool. The weather was mild with a bit of wind and just a sprinkle of humidity in the air. I didn’t even get to use my humungous abanico which now goes wherever I do. It was absolutely perfect for a night out.

Dinner at Samba

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in Expat Life, Manila, Manila What to Do, Uncategorized

Recycling in Manila: From Single Use Plastic to the Victims of Decluttering

By now, almost everyone has heard of the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change’s (IPCC) report on climate change. If you haven’t, click here to watch a quick summary. Long story short, we’re the problem. And, there’s just too many of us. For a while now, I’ve been quietly looking for and learning ways to help out by lessening my emissions. I also have some mentors who have been so helpful in this journey of sustainably lowering my carbon footprint without sacrificing too much of the lifestyle I enjoy or making it too inconvenient.

Recycling and cutting down on our plastic waste is one of the most straightforward ways to lower our emissions. While I do try to avoid single-use plastic, there are some establishments both here and abroad, that still use them for their packaging. At the same time, it’s quite difficult to give up on the convenience it brings. Let’s be honest here.

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Le Petit Café Fleur: A Serene Brunch Spot in Poblacion

It’s been a hot minute since I shared about a café-restaurant here. As someone who loves to eat and write about food but hates making her own, I must admit that dining out is one of my favorite pleasures in life. I’ve always said that Manila has such an underrated dining scene. Moving back here after some years of being away, I find that so much has changed — more so during the pandemic. Some of the restaurants I used to frequent are no longer here. Thankfully, in a city as fast-paced as this one, you just know that there will be something new to come along pretty soon to heal your broken foodie heart. Something like Chef Sau del Rosario’s Le Petit Café Fleur.

In 2020, a daintier version of del Rosario’s Café Fleur in Pampanga opened its doors in Makati – in Poblacion, to be exact. Been going back a couple of times now so it’s pretty safe to say that it’s one of my favorite brunch spots in the Metro.

One time, I had brunch with diplomatic spouses based in Manila, another with some entrepreneur lady friends. Each visit is always a delight, with everyone in the group extremely pleased with the choice of restaurant. This, due to the ambience, the menu, and the warm and attentive staff. I’ll make this short and sweet since I feel like the pictures can do the talking for me.

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in Expat Life, Manila, Manila Tips

Moving to Manila? Here are the Apps You Need For a Smoother Life

When I left Manila in 2014, the Philippines was already the social media capital of the world. So it’s no surprise that apps promising to make life easier were starting to become popular. In a megalopolis like Metro Manila, life is definitely fast-paced. So yes, we’re always looking for ways to streamline our day-to-day tasks and getting easier access to our needs. When we got back towards the end of 2020, there was practically an app for anything that comes to mind.

So if you’re moving to Manila anytime soon or if you’re already here and you’re looking to streamline your life (maybe be a good expat too and integrate better? 😉), then here are some apps your phone needs. Stat.

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Manila Shopping Guide: SM Aura

In each new posting, you’ll always find yourself learning everything – even day to day life – from scratch. Finding your way around is one thing and knowing where to go and who to call for certain things is definitely another. After all, it’s a new country –  a whole new place, culture, and maybe even their language is completely new to you. I remember that before I had local friends, the internet was the one that held my hand as I searched for the right grocery store to visit in Berlin or the best place to get fish head curry in KL within 30 minutes as I had a high ranking official coming over for dinner and he was craving for that particular dish. If you know me well enough, then you already know cooking something that complicated is a road I refuse to take – but I digress.

My point is, one of the more practical ways to know if – as an expat – you’ve already settled in a place is knowing where to go for one’s needs. Ranging from the basics to the things that exist purely for inducing joy. I recently had the pleasure of seeing what SM Aura has to offer along with our group of embassy ladies who are currently posted here in Manila.

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Back to (the) Futur:st: Art Space Meet Great Drinks in Poblacion

I missed going out in Manila. While the Berlin gastronomy scene was its own exciting animal, there’s really no place like home – or so the song goes. I found myself at Futur:st, with my friend (and fellow self-confessed “fun tita”) Regina, on a fine Thursday afternoon. It’s one of her usual haunts and when it comes to a place for great drinks, I fully give her my trust. Also, this is how you meet a friend over drinks in the middle of a pandemic – safely and way before curfew.

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in Diplomatic Incidents, Personal Musings, Uncategorized

Changes and boredom

KL is such an expat friendly city. It’s like Singapore, Hong Kong, and even Manila (yes, people! Manila is expat friendly! Come see it!). There are so many different things you can do that it’s actually hard to get bored.

Which is a good thing since my husband worries about me getting bored (which might lead to me getting cranky) here while he’s in the office. See, back in Manila I worked as a full-time journalist. I did TV and multimedia and was always on the go. I was doing things like this and before that, things like this and this. I’m pretty much out all day till a bit late at night – like 5 to 6 times a week.

I did stories on diplomats, foreign policy, and politicians. I covered the impeachment trial of the Chief Justice and did stories on the South China Sea/West Philippine Sea issue. I met lots of fun and interesting people. I also did stories on art, beauty, fashion, travel, and food which you can find here. It was so much fun but I was as crazy busy as my husband was back in the home office, making the move here to KL a welcomed change. Now, only one of us is crazy busy! 😉

definitely and obviously miss my job but the time to lie down and actually get to do some reading (I brought a lot of my books from Manila!) is such a glorious feeling! So different from squeezing in a couple of pages while my crew cab zig zags along Manila traffic!

Sometimes, I wake up basically asking myself: Do I really have free time? Or am I just forgetting something?

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